Dressing Like a Slut Gets you Sex, not Love - Lady of Light - June 12, 2013

"Warning: Dressing like a slut will get you sex with anyone, not a relationship with the one you are trying to attract."





Dressing "slutty" or "sexy" is done (usually) because we are trying to attract a mate. Mate meaning a partner for life, not just someone to "mate with" (have sex with). So, why then do you need to dress this way and then complain when people stare at your "goods" when you don't want them too? You dress to attract a certain individual, or a certain type of individual, however, you attract EVERYONE's attention, even and especially the "creepy" people. You attract those looking for a quick "lay", someone only in it for the sex because that's how you make them feel when they look at you dressed that way.

If you want someone to love you for you, stop dressing in a manner that attracts everyone and start dressing in a way that attracts only those that you want. Let someone see you for you and not your body.

Yes, some rapes happen because of dressing "slutty", and that's because there are "sick" people out there whose thoughts and actions are triggered by what they see. Why give these people fuel for their 'illness'?

I guess the bottom line is, if you don't want anyone and everyone staring at you and trying to "get a piece of you", then dress appropriately. Don't dangle your raw steak in front of a pack of hungry wolves and expect them not to bite. The wolves will always bite if they're hungry. The wolf doesn't care about you, the wolf only cares about the steak.

Well it's never worked for Me.

lol Hobbit.

Thanks guys, I needed a good laugh today.....
I am picturing a short male hobbit dressed in a burlesque like attire....

Here after I read this thread I couldn't help myself from wondering what Frodo and Samwise would look like in burlesque(thank you Denise).

I thought we needed some pictures to go with these words:

Which one is our Hobbit? left or right....hehehe!

I think he's the one on the left.

On another note, why do fat men feel the need to wear Speedos?

Cat

Catspaw56 said:

I think he's the one on the left.

On another note, why do fat men feel the need to wear Speedos?

Cat

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I too gravitate toward the left one for some unknown reason.

As to the speedo thing, I've often wondered that myself. Maybe it's a comfort thing?

Wearing a Speedo would be a good way to keep your neighbors from looking in to your backyard.

I'm pretty sure that's what my neighbor did across the street. He'd wear a Speedo all the the time in his backyard even though he had no pool, which I assume was to prevent people from looking into his backyard.

Denise said:

Wearing a Speedo would be a good way to keep your neighbors from looking in to your backyard.

I'm pretty sure that's what my neighbor did across the street. He'd wear a Speedo all the the time in his backyard even though he had no pool, which I assume was to prevent people from looking into his backyard.

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Creepy. Ew.

An example of the exact opposite of what I was saying in the beginning, lol.

That pic isn't that slutty but i get the point. if you don't want somebody lookin at your boobs or your ass then don't show them. Mostly the wrong attention from dressing like that. i get it.

Ladies, show a many your brains, but don't make him feel too dum and save your body for the only one who should be seein it that special guy not every guy on the street. Guys who are looking for a relashionship arn't lookin for a girl who dresses like she's givin herself away for free.