http://mkultra.ca/wp-content/uploads/2007/09/david_bowie.jpgso im a guy and im growing out my hair. any tips on how to grow it into looking like this, should i trim it when growing it to make it shape into this,or any advice on what to tell my barber before they ruin my hair?(i've had bad experiences with barbers,im thinking of trimming my own hair should i?) any positive advice would be coolyea,im looking for a style to go with when i have it long, my hair is somewhat straight, and im looking for a style like the one above and along the lines of:http://www.hairfinder.com/haircollections3/man-haircut5.htmorhttp://www.hairfinder.com/haircollections5/parisblonde8.htm"you get what you pay for" -the sad truth(gonna have to find a expensive barber)