As to Cat, I would trust her until the one time she proves that I misplaced my trust....just as I did with you Linda.
And it was an "offer", if you wish to call it setting of terms than ok but I don't believe that my experiences are open discussion unless I wish to make it so and in this instance, I chose not to but offered a discussion with Cat.
Is Cat wise? I don't know. Are you an ass? Probably for you continually put forth explanations for me as if fact when the reality of it is not so.