Would like distance healing for Friend

My friend who is the closest thing to a mother to me, had a nasty fall fractured wrist, was admitted in respritory failure back in April 2012, well after three weeks in hospital and 3 weeks in a rehab center, they sent her home.
Hospital tried to send her home before that, knowing she was weak in walking, but with the help of a home nursing staff, so, she went back in and was sent to center.. Well, now she is getting better, but since yesterday has been feeling dizzy when standing up to walk with my assistance. Before yesterday she was almost back to her normal self.
The physical therapist had her exercising her legs longer than what she was used to.

Thanks

Tell her she should be feeling better shortly. I will work on this. She must want to be better for it to work and be maintained.



Is she on any kind of medication?

Thank you for your help and I will tell her. I know in fact she does want to be better, she really worked at the center to get to be as far advanced as she did. She's used to be independent, and doesn't like to impose on people. I help her to the bathroom when she needs it, anytime day or night, and she hates having to wake me. I do grumble a little bit ,but her in home nurse visitor comes supplied with her treatment after the fall and supposed to be complimentary, told her she does the same thing if disturbed, I suppose it's natural.

Yes, she's on pills for blood pressure, breathing (she's on oxygen therapy 24/7 with COPD, and a pill for chlorestol, and prednizone (spelling?) I'm not quite sure what that's for. Again I thank you for your help.

As I was tapping into her energy to heal her, I could feel her dizziness and it felt as though something she was taking was blocking the oxygen from getting through her body to where it needs to be. This was the source of the dizziness, lack of oxygen to essential parts of the body (ie. brain, muscles, etc.). This is why I asked if she was on something, I could feel it immediately.

I've worked to get the oxygen to go through her system properly through her blood and to help the blood flow better. I can feel the flow is better already.

I'm sure if any of the other healers on here see this, they will help as well. They may or may not say they're helping, but I can guarantee, I won't be the only one working on this.

Tell her to rest, this will help the energy work better. She doesn't have to remain still or anything, just don't let her overdo it. But, I'm sure she already knows her limits.


Lady of Light

She does feel slightly better today, she is also is taking some Aleve to help relax her a bit,( and I'm sure she must have slight pain in wrist although she never complains about it) as one of the pills say the side affect could be restlessness.

At night, I managed to talk in her into it, (because she doesn't even believe hot milk can help you to sleep) so, I've been making her some tea made from Linden leaves that do seem to help her to fall asleep, but she has also been one of those people who never sleep the whole night through to begin with, she used to normally sleep every 2 to 3 hours and wake up and read a bit and then go back to sleep, then again.

Not one of the side affects of the pills mentioned the possibilities of numorous bathroom trips though. Either Constipitation or the possibility of Diarehea (at least that's fortunate) but not what she's doing.

Thanks again for all of your help and suggestions, I do pass them through to her.

This one's going to take a little time. It's because of the meds.

I can't tell you to have her rid herself of the medication, that would be out of my jurisdiction, but my personally beliefs on pharmaceuticals is if it's not a matter or life or death, there is always a better way. Anything from the pharmaceutical industry will always do more harm than good (unless it's needed to keep alive, and most times it's not).

I'm still working on her blood, cleaning it, and getting that flow working well, making sure the oxygen is going where it needs to go.

Today, I'm feeling her muscles; the oxygen is having a hard time there for some reason. I'm working on that, but again, the meds are causing it to take longer. There's nothing I can do but work around them (the meds).

This next statement may or may not be liked, but this is a message that keeps coming to me to tell you/her:

Salt regulates the blood / blood-pressure. Salt is healthy and is needed. It is merely the excess of salt that is harmful, not the salt itself.

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Thank you or all the help you are giving , I am having some trouble in posting this o you, I don't know why it says I'm not logged in when I am, but I agree with what you said about meds, I think its a scam inconjunction wih Dr's and Big Pharma,but unfortunately she believes in them. She's walking a little bit steadier today and I relaid the message you gave me to her, she said she never hought of it that way before. Her therapist seems to think there will be days like that, nohing to be overly concerned about. So, thank you or all o your help, I believe you more than he therapist.

2loserel3 said:

I am having some trouble in posting this o you, I don't know why it says I'm not logged in when I am,

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That usually happens if you don't check the "remember me" box under the login boxes when you log in. The software automatically logs you out after 15 minutes if you don't select that box. It's more for security when using public computers.

2loserel3 said:

Thank you or all the help you are giving ,..... but I agree with what you said about meds, I think its a scam inconjunction wih Dr's and Big Pharma,but unfortunately she believes in them. She's walking a little bit steadier today and I relaid the message you gave me to her, she said she never hought of it that way before. Her therapist seems to think there will be days like that, nohing to be overly concerned about. So, thank you or all o your help, I believe you more than he therapist.

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I will work with her energy until I have gotten her to a point where I can do no more. At that point, I will let you know. For now, I am working on cleansing her.

Glad to hear she's steadier. That will increase as long as all goes well. The more energy put into her healing, the faster she will heal.

She's lucky to have you! She needs you more than she lets on, and she's extremely grateful you're there!


Lady of Light

Thank you that sounds like her,all though I feel like I'm the lucky one. Sometimes I feel as if I'm the burden and she and her husband both might've been better off not knowing me. She's stood by me, though some of my stupidity through the years, when alot of people would've probably tossed me out, due to my financial problems, as she stood by her husband of 46 years, even though he was a black out drinker, but not an every day drinker.

Thought I would tell you how she got to this situation. She had a Dr. of 10 years one who attended her husband when he was in the hospital and he wanted her to get blood work done so he could perscribe her meds. Well usually no problem. However she had had a cold and it takes her awhile as you may imagine to get over them, well her car broke down and she tried to save the money to fix it, meanwhile gas prices were too high and she couldn't afford a cab So, this Dr. gave her a perscription for 10 days and told she needed to get her blood work or he would not perscribe anymore meds. She had had a better Dr before him but he was too far out for her to drive to, and she had been on these meds for for 10 years then, after the old Dr. found she needed 5 bypasses, and he discovered an abdominal aortic aneurysm where she had steroids at the hospital and it brought out her diabetes (Type 2), and I think her COPD, she never had them before then. Well, she got weakened and had 3 falls before the one that sent her to the hospital and yet she still believes in these people.
Now she's getting the medical bills, she had a dr. she saw three times once at his office, and he sent her a bill for $246.00. Outrageous, what they charge, I applied for Medicaid for her and DCF tod her she has too high an income. After all the bills are paid and rent she has $155.00 left for the month for food , toiletries, etc. That's too much income?

One things for sure she's not going back to him, I found her one 3 blocks from where we live.

I also mentioned the salt again today and this time she acutally added a little to her meal at dinner time.

Well, I believe her previous Dr. should be sent the bills, as he was the one to cause this, he never even perscribed her test stips for diabetes.

Thank you again or all your help.

Just to update, I'm not done, but information needs to be passed along for what has been done so far.

She should be able to be up and around and do more without it taking its toll on her like it used to. I'm sure she'll have no problem with wanting to do more now.

I've been working on cleaning out her lungs and cleaning up the "film" on her muscles as well. This was all preventing oxygen (and nutrients of course) from circulating throughout her system to feed her body properly. I worked on her heart in the beginning, there is some damage I can see, and I will do what I can to repair (I did minor repairs already). Her breathing should be easier and she should have more energy. Keep with the salt (only so much as to be tasted, not too much), it will help with some of the repairs. I will be focusing on her other organs in the next day or so.


Take care, both of you!

Lady of Light

2loserel3 said:

Thank you that sounds like her,all though I feel like I'm the lucky one. Sometimes I feel as if I'm the burden and she and her husband both might've been better off not knowing me. She's stood by me, though some of my stupidity through the years, when alot of people would've probably tossed me out, due to my financial problems, as she stood by her husband of 46 years, even though he was a black out drinker, but not an every day drinker.

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I get the feeling that she never saw you as a burden. No matter how hard it may have been at times. She's a caring lady, and always looked out for you. She still does, doesn't she?

Yes, she does,this is her computer she got it at supergood deal at Target two years ago, she bought it so, I wouldn't have to always go to the library. Next thing will be a good pair of walking shoes, I've nearly worn out almost two shoes with my walking. She gives me bus fare at least one way if I need it, I try not to because of her expenses. Especially with the bills, the latest one is an ambulance that transported her from hospital to rehab center, Medicare said it wasn't medically necessary. She couldn't even walk because all hospital had her doing was sitting that chair, she has the oxygen, but Medicare says not medically necessary and the company wants $294.00! What was she supposed to do, take a bus, or walk? Outrageous!

Thank you again, She said she seems a little weak but that could be beause she's not sleeping well. She had some Activia, yesterday, and it seemed to worked yesterday nurses aide did say that would weaken her. so, she should be improving, she was walking a little betterso thank you for the information and all that you are doing.

My heart goes out to you both!

Is there by chance a medication she is on that makes her feel ill? Sick to the stomach?

When I was healing her kidneys, I suddenly felt very ill. I almost threw up, actually. I managed to break up some of the toxins, however. She will need to flush her system. I am told "electrolytes or a bit of salt in her water". This will help to flush the toxins out as I cleanse her renal system.

Thank you for your sympathy and help, yes, you are spot on as they say, nearly all the meds she is on has a side affect of possibility of upset stomach, I'm sorry that it gave you the same reaction, last night she was feeling it in near her throat. We still don't know which one it is that makes her go to the bathroom so much at night, and she still can't apply pressure to wrist as of yet, so she can't use her walker, to steady herself, and I sleep out next to her on the love seat, (she has always slept on the sofa, since her husband passed away, we have very little space here, and her electric oxygen machine is close by), and escort her when she has to go to the bathroom.

I went with her to the new dr today, she seems very nice and my friend liked her. She even wanted to send her to the same cardiologist, that my friend had for a stress test years ago, when she had the aortic aneurysm, this was who my friend wanted to have as her main cardiologist, before the dr. recommended him. The only down side was the wait it took at the office (she had to open a new oxygen tank,they don't have too much air in them so, I have to always bring a spare for her, and well the taxi from the drs office took a ridiculously long time to get there, and he did assist her to the apartment, but its not wheelchair accessible if it were I could do it. The fair was only $5.70 so, we gave him $3.30 and he looked at us, and said $9.00? Is that all, Really? He could see we don't live in a very nice place, and he wasn't happy with what we could afford to give him. Needless to say, we tried to report his sour attitude, because my friend said he complained about the layout of the property (rocks instead of grass) and two bushes to pass by near the building he said to her you can get through this? We usually don't report anybody and usually let it slide, but he got her in the apartment and never even offered to help her out of the wheelchair like the others do, but the girl who answers the phones and dispatches, said she needed the cab number we never paid that much attention to the cab number.

Since she got rid of her car unforunate this is how she'll have to go by until she can use her wrist and take a regular cab. She really doesn't like being so dependent on things like cabs, I know that she was a very good safe driver I used to ride with her her relexes are excellent and one minor fender bender that was deemed not her fault in 30 years of driving, because when she was first married, her husband didn't drink and he taught her how to drive. He was good too when he was sober.

Thanks for your help, I'll put a little salt in her water and try talking her into something like Gatorade. Ekectrolytes was what was messed up in her husband, and had he lived he would've had COPD also.They had similar tastes and agreed far more on things, then disagreed the only thing that upset her was his need for alcohol, but his whole family on his father's side had the same type of problem, maybe not in the same way it showed up in him, but still the same problem. Will let you go for now, and let you know how the salt is working, and if I can get her to take something like Gatorade. If not the salt in the water and in her food, should hopefully help assist in the healing process, Thank you again for all of your help and advice.

I need you to do something very important for me. Since there are so many issues that need clearing up with your friend's health it is quite overwhelming, I would like a short (no more than 5) list of the biggest issues she is feeling at this time. Top 5 things she wishes would clear up more than anything else. This would help better at this point, so that I'm not all over the place. I've been working with the entire body, moving from section to section doing cleansing, but it's time for more healing than cleansing. But I will go back to the cleansing after shifting to the healing.

So, the biggest problems, what does she complain about most (or there's something she's not mentioning), would be most helpful. You might have to probe her a bit, there's something that she sees as not that big of a deal, but I need to know what that is because it is a big deal.

Thanks,
Lady of Light

Thank you again for helping, I had a talk with her this morning, she's closed mouth about alot of things, but I'll list the things I know she complains about most and wishes she could change.

1. Would be the COPD, she on oxygen electric machine, and portable containers when she goes out that onlylast 3 hrs,24/7 365, she can go a little bit without it, but not too long, when she does things like even with the CNA this week when she helped give her a shower, she was winded, slightly dizzy for a few days, weak. ( She can even just when she comes from the bathroom.The thing that might be a bigger deal then she thinks it is though, might be that the oxygen hose that she wears in her nostrils causes the nose to dry out and she has to clean it on occassion and she gets a nose bleed from that, I don't know how concerned she is about that, she never lets me know too much, these are things I observe, the one she does verbaly complain about the most is the oxygen.

2. Her diabetes type 2 she was saying something to the nurse that she noticed her feet were numb, she never had that before her ordeal with the Dr. who removed her from her meds for two years.

3. Right now I know she wants to walk better then she's been doing,and (she wants to be able to apply more pressure her to wrist, that was hospital neglect too, ( the first week the Dr. had ordered bed rest the last two weeks she was sitting upright in a chair for the mos part for therapy)the week she was discharged, that was after her three week stay in the hospital and they neglected to see if she could walk to the bathroom before she was discharged. when the home health care nurse came and saw she couldn't walk to the bahroom, she was sent back and readmitted she spent from 12:30 pm. until 3:00 am in the emergency room until they finally gave her a room again she spent 3 days and then went to a rehab center.

4. I know she gets upset stomach alot with those pills, but I think she may be depressed as well, she's got at least $2,000 in medical bills that Medicare wouldn't pay, and not much money to pay it.

5. Her hearing, she can her the sound, but certain words, say like bill or pill she has a hard time hearing and I guess she's gotten used to it and learned to cope with it, but certain people I have to talk to myself for her, because they either talk too low, or they don't enunciate well enough, I do know that bothers her alot. She even has problems understanding me, sometimes.

Thank you again for all that you are doing, to help her.

Well, those are the top five things that she has deal with either for awhile or right at this time.

It's those "little" things that she's blocking out that are causing trouble. It's a resistance that I can feel. I'll work on what I can. Doing the wrists now, had to do the circulation first. A lot of her problems are due to circulation issues, and her breathing (the lungs) go hand in hand with the blood circulation, so, that was a big one. Once her system is flushed (this will take some time, there's no instant flush), she'll start feeling wonderful. She just needs to believe, because her power put into this is more powerful than anything I can provide.

And I can almost guarantee there's depression, I'm feeling it loud and clear, it is also causing some resistance and blockage. I'll do what I can.

Thank you, I thought there was some depression, there, since before the hard fall she had, and when she was off her medication, she hadn't been out of the apartment for two years, I did and still do all the errands (at least this is getting her out of her shell, if you can say something good about that type of an experience.)

She never talks about it much, but even though he had his faults, I think she misses her husband still, and blames herself for not being able to breathe properly. Well, we didn't know about cigarettes, and what they could cause back then, anyway she shouldn't blame herself.

I'll tell her she needs to believe, she's a bit more open minded about these things, especially since I relay to her about some of the things talked about on Coast to Coast. I think her husband might still be around anyway looking in on us. He was like a father figure to me when he was sober. When he was drinking he was like an overgrown kid (pest) and couldn't remember any of it.

The door to the bedroom sometimes opens in the night, I don't close it all the way and my friend caught it doing it 4 times one night when she was up going to the bathroom. It never did that when we first moved in. Also sometimes the plug to the microwave comes out a little bit just when we start to heat up something sometimes in the late night. He liked to pull practical jokes. So, I think he drops in on us from time to time.

Thanks again for you hard work in helping us.

Well, from the sounds of it, I'd say it's most likely him there with you guys.

I'm glad she's fairly open-minded, that helps a lot. But there is some resistance that I'm feeling and I'm not sure where it's coming from. It may just be because of all the toxins that were just released, I can't be sure. I did release quite a bit of toxicity that was built up.

Blood-flow is a major issue, I can feel that. Still doing what I can. Blockage or no, I'm still trying to do what I can.