Thank you Lady of Light for your words of encouragement. That was just a down day for me all the way over, you know a bad hair day.
Thank you again for the advice with my friend, I know she's not telling me everything. now this month she' can't go to the dr. nearly all the money is gone to pay for the bills the dr. expects payment up front before services rendered. We've been cutting her pills in half and though i know that's not the way you should do it, and so does she,, but she was much worse when she didn't have the pills for a week and half. our neighbor two doors down is going to help her get to the drs by going with us, she still doesn't want them to come to the house, i don't get it but i have to respect her wishes unless its an emergancy. She will have money for the perscriptions and will make an appointment with the dr after the first of the month if she wants to still see her, if that happens, then the drs. to the house.
now a further update, we decided to stay with Comcast unfortunately, but we are getting the internet. It's a decent deal and they'll be sending the equipment in five days. i said look it at this way she just got a book of stamps at 46 cents a stamp for twenty, now we can pay it all online except the rent and stretch the stamps out and not also have to buy envelopes.

So hopefully I can figure out how to set it all up. If not it'll be next month we can get them to come out and install. hopefully our circumstances or going to improve.
Hopefully be back in business shortly. I think she too came to depend upon the internet, especially when trying to think up a name for a familiar face on tv.